Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Prince charming and Teenage girl!

Teenage is the most beautiful period of one’s life. You never worry about future. You have no regrets on past. You just live for the moment…


And yes… your guess is right, my topic is about… Teenage.

All through my teenage I was friends with girls who are best at their dressing, perfect in their looks, and relatively good at studies ( I am tempted to write their names here.. I will be bashed.. If I mention them)

Anyway, Coming to the point one of my best buddies.. I was walking with her, we were chatting something… and our classes in 9th class ( IIT foundation) used to start at 5:30 AM and we are supposed to attend those classes without fail, there came a guy… in the morning mist screaming… Hima(name changed) and.. Asked me “Saroja.. Can you please walk ahead I want to talk to her!” I was super excited and walked away. I am not sure of what happened to their story after that… but this was the first.. Fantastic.. Memory of teenage attraction I had..

Then after few months in our tenth class… one friend known as Sravani and I were walking home after school.. There came a Romeo all of a sudden from nowhere performed.. a few stunts.. on his bicycle I was amazed at that fellows’ skill. He then politely asked me… “Saroja, if you don’t mind.. can you please..” I got it.. I am excited too.. I walked merrily leaving them alone. After that I never know what happened to their story.

After a Year.. my intermediate days… My best friend kind of material… who I think now.. is a biggest diplomat on earth was walking with me… after college 7:30 PM , from the darkness, there came a voice “ I want to talk to you… “ and that.. Four eyed fellow.. turned to me.. Now I know.. what you mean… I get it.. I am going to move.. Please don’t say it aloud.. I am literally praying inside.. but but but.. he said it.. “ Saroja… can you please “ he said it!!… okay .. okay… now it’s just ..uff.. and he just asked me to walk a little ahead .. what is in that? So .. I started walking ahead.. Never heard of their story after that.

Two years later.. my Engineering college.. I was walking with REEMA ( Name changed again) and then there came a fellow running in the January fog at 8:30 AM ( I can tell you the fog is the only interesting part and rest of the surrounding is quite unhygienic) and he had.. two perk chocolates in his hand.. he wished us both “a happy morning “and gave a chocolate to each of us.. he enquired about college seniors and studies…. And then.. Oh my god… how many times should I face this.. Embarrassing and stupid situation.. He turned his head to me… Now you fool I know.. I got it, please please please don’t say it aloud .. just.. hold on and give me way I will walk ahead… I am thinking and then suddenly he said “Saroja, if you don’t mind…can you..” This is it! This is it ! he said.. it.. ! Oh Dear Lord How many times you are going to show me the same picture on and on..How many times should I walk ahead!.… (FYI none of the above stories succeeded.)

And that is the day I decided… If someone comes to me and asks my friends to walk ahead.. I am going to reject him then and there itself, no matter how good he is, no matter how much I like him, no matter what. But I never did get a chance like that.

Every girl I know had fairy tales, fantasies, dreams and dream stories of her kind.. Most of them are scared to tell them aloud and most of them are scared to think.. But deep down every girl, even the most shrewd girl waits for a fairy tale hero in her teenage. Some of them may extend to her tender twenties.

As she progresses into her mid twenties, she realizes a fairy tale hero or prince charming will just live in fairy tales and.. U need to embrace whom so ever u accept /marry as a prince charming. And her prince charming can break her heart for the sake of his ego/parents/lose of interest in her/money/compatibility/new partner. This is when she turns a Woman.

Bottom-line: A girl leaves her fantasies only when her heart breaks into several pieces. Until then she believes that she is a princess to her father and a Queen to her mate. She comes to reality only when she breaks her bones/heart/teeth  on rocky stones :-)

P.S: My statements are purely my personal opinions, no offense intended.